attention seekers

people do lots of things to get attention... and sometimes it is pretty interesting what and how it is carried out. sometime its outrightly attention seeking like the big ego, then again for some there's a whole lot of subtle hints and messages..

well....i was just reflecting upon the topic, and it occurred to me that we all do need attention sometimes. to comfort us, to know that we are accepted, to tell us everything is gonna be all right, and maybe perhaps just so we could get some attention in this world where everyone is so self absorbed.

in that case, if its ok to seek attention, then where is the borderline between getting the right amount of attention and going OTT? some people i know tell the whole world about their problems and expecting everyone to listen and to look for that sympathetic ear out there...but really does everyone need to knw every single detail your miseries? or there's those who tells everyone bout their 'achievements' or rather lack of achievements too...

for the record, attention seeking is alright* at times. if the situation calls for it and if you're seeking the right people. it is not alright when its done constantly or its seeked from every random person.

b-l-o-g-s

well....ive finally the inspiration to update my blog (yay!)

anyway, guess its the good company coupled with good music - jazz, that got us on the topic of blogging

why blog? ppl blog to preserve memories, mayb to write abt a certain view they have, to update friends acroess the globe, mayb the odd one to bitch abt stuff thats happening, and usually just plainly to write down something and to be opinionated.

however, as blogs are pretty public, what content is reader appropriate and does the blogger actually want the whole world reading it or not?? guess it depends from ppl to ppl....but i guess at the end of the day, its the person's own OPINION and i guess they are entitled to it anyway

guess we all had a negative experience or two here and there.....like someone writing about you in their blog subtlely (trying to hint perhaps???) and only if you were the one you'll knw who you are....or maybe suddenly everyone knws what has happened to you yesterday....

my conclusion: i guess at the end of the day, i dun really care what ppl think of my blog...but i guess there's always stuff that should be really kept to yourself....but a reason to be put of blogging...???hmmm i think not...
just that mayb at the end of the day i might look real stupid blogging abt something real shalow...then again..with all the stupid things ive been doing lately....that's another story all together... :P

on a side note...blogging is really entertainment content for both yourself and ppl who are reading it ay? to find out stuff that u don't knw..

.....so fill me in with the latest goss ppl...and don't stop blogging!